Well many of you guys probably will appreciate this post on your first date. You ll be nervous so just remember to do the below :-
1. Don't be late
The first impression means a lot
2.Take her to an expensive place
Coz the food there will be bad and the attention will be on you
3. Don't eat too fast
Coz then you cant use the time the food is in your mouth to think what to answer or ask
4. Never talk about your Ex
Well galz don't like guys who live in the past or brood
5. Never talk about her figure
Don't talk about her figure as she might get the impression your sexually attracted to her
6. Try keeping the attention on her
Ok this is a hard one coz there will be other chicks around ... try admiring her beauty
7. Don't keep talking about your self
Remember this is not all about you, its about her too
Don't talk with your mouth full, make silly sounds ....etc
9. Where appropriate attire
Dont dress like your going to the pasar malam
10. Get the bill
Make sure to get the bill
Well if i was you i wouldn't tell a girl i love you in the first date, cause girls don't like to be force into commitment.
Well galz or expert guys feel free to add to the list to help our other guy friends here ??
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5 comments:
Nice try Ahilan.I wouldn't go up against the given ideas on a first date.What about 2nd date? Planning to play-actor again? ..I'm afraid u missed ur 11th point..."BE URSELF"
As sarcastic as it may seems, this is the reason why THE GALZ NITE OUT is in trend!
Really ... well when our whole life is a temporary act ... acting well once to be in the arms of the love one is never wrong .. n as for my X boss's wife ..... the fact you chose that name to comment shows that a guy is always in your mind though you prefer galz around you :)
Ahilan, let just say that name prove that I'm experienced and the 10 steps aren't real coz it didn't make it be urself - u probably need to learn from ur xboss ;)
I'd say the 10 things are pretty relevent. Except for a few exemptions, like the "expensive place". The first date doens't need to be a dinner, think different :) Altho dinner is the safest thing to do
Being yourself is definately out of the equation in a first date. You don't show yourself, you show your "best self".
The point of a first date is to impress her. You have to be like the perfect man for the girl to accept you as yourself. For the guys who are charming and interesting, "being yourself" would be perfect. But what about the guys who are not natural conversationalists. "Being yourself" is really good if you think you can pull it off. Or else just show your best self and try to slowly bring in your lacks later and see if the girl can take it. :)
just my opinion
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